This is not “you’ve got this” cheerleading. This is structured, session-by-session strategy for divorcing someone who escalates, manipulates, or litigates for sport — built by a certified coach who assessed risk professionally for two decades.
High-conflict divorce doesn’t follow a normal playbook. When every email becomes an argument and every decision feels like a potential landmine, having the right strategy can change how you move through the process.
This Is for You If…
When your divorce has become a campaign against you, you need more than support—you need a war room.
Everything in the Strategy Package, plus court-date preparation, financial disclosure organization support, and priority access between sessions for the moments that can’t wait until your next appointment.
For perspective: a contested divorce in Ontario averages $15,000–$30,000 per spouse in legal fees. Six months of dedicated strategy support costs less than nine hours of a family lawyer’s time—and its entire job is to make every one of those lawyer hours count.
or 3 monthly payments of $995
12 sessions · 6 months · For active litigation or deeply entrenched conflict
6 sessions · 12 weeks · Bi-weekly strategy
This is the core system for surviving a high-conflict divorce.
Together, we’ll work through four pillars: documentation systems that build your case daily, communication protocols using BIFF and Gray Rock, lawyer-cost management that keeps your retainer focused on legal work, and stage-specific strategy for wherever you are—deciding, negotiating, or litigating.
Includes the complete Divorce Command Center toolkit ($67 value) and email support between sessions.
That’s six strategy sessions for roughly the cost of four hours with a family lawyer—designed to save you many times that in the hours you don’t spend venting, repeating, and reorganizing at $350/hour.
The settlement offer you can’t evaluate. The parenting-plan clause that feels wrong but you can’t explain why. The lawyer meeting you’re dreading.
We take one high-stakes decision and map it like the risk assessment it is. You leave with a written action plan—not a pep talk.
Your $325 is fully credited toward either package if you upgrade within 14 days.
One 90-minute session · One burning decision
Not every divorce follows the same timeline, and not every situation needs the same level of support.
If you’re between stages or facing one specific challenge, there are additional pathways available.
For one contained challenge—preparing for mediation, evaluating a settlement, or getting decision-clear about whether to proceed at all.
Tell me where you are, what's happening, and what you need help navigating.
We'll identify the key challenges, risks, and priorities for your situation.
Session by session, we'll build the systems, communication habits, and strategies you need.
Walk into negotiations, mediation, lawyer meetings, and difficult exchanges with a clearer plan.
Transparency and communication are at the heart of what we do. Explore answers to common questions about our services, and process.
Divorce coaching is a personalized support service that helps you navigate the emotional and practical challenges of divorce. A divorce coach provides guidance, accountability, and strategies to help you make informed decisions, stay organized, and move forward with confidence.
Divorce coaching is a personalized support service that helps you navigate the emotional and practical challenges of divorce. A divorce coach provides guidance, accountability, and strategies to help you make informed decisions, stay organized, and move forward with confidence.
Divorce coaching is a personalized support service that helps you navigate the emotional and practical challenges of divorce. A divorce coach provides guidance, accountability, and strategies to help you make informed decisions, stay organized, and move forward with confidence.
